Illustration by Monica Kim Garza.
Sex Tapes #9
Sex Tapes is a series of up front and anonymous interviews about the sex lives of various women.
Are you in a relationship?
No.
How often do you have sex?
Depends. I had a thing with a guy a month ago and we would hang out every day and have sex every time we hung out. The spark lasted about two months and then I realized he had nothing else to offer me.
Do you like having sex?
When the sex is good, yes.
What’s your favourite thing to do when with a partner?
Anything from behind.
What do you not like to do?
ANAL
Do you sometimes do things you don’t particularly like? Why?
I will try anything once, or twice.
Do you fake orgasms?
Unfortunately.
Do you masturbate? If yes how often?
I go through obsessive phases. Like yesterday for instance, I masturbated around six times throughout the day.
Do you cheat on your partners? If yes why?
I have cheated once, I wasn't sexually satisfied. It was purely for sex.
Have you ever been cheated on?
Only my relationships in high school.
What’s the best sex you’ve ever had and why?
It was when I cheated on my boyfriend. My boyfriend at the time was a terrible lover and my best friend of 10 years came to visit me. We had always had a sexual tension and one night we had sex. It was a mixture of doing it in secret, not having had good sex in two years and doing it with a friend I had secretly always had a thing for. It was magic.
What’s been the worst sex you’ve ever had?
My ex-boyfriend. He was asexual, and never came.
What do you fantasize about?
Anal actually feeling good.
Would you ever act on your fantasies?
No because it doesn't feel good.
What do you wish someone had told you about sex before you started having it?
That it's ok to enjoy sex as a woman. When I was younger I always catered to the guy I was sleeping with.